“The
purpose of life is a life of purpose” ---Robert
Byrne
‘Dare
to Design your Life’ is a book
full of personal experiences. It is not an instructional
manual that will advise you to do things in a particular
fashion. Instead, this book is full of stories from
real life, which you can correlate and identify with.
The book is designed to avoid being preachy or idealistic.
It will help you enrich your life and take a cue from
the great stories chronicled in the following pages.
The concept of this book was developed after watching
scores of people who are living life the theoretical
way. Therefore, Dare to Design your Life is not a normal
‘do this, do that’ book. Think of it as
a recipe book, wherein you will find ingredients like
self-motivation and self-orientation that will add life
to your years.
Today, people might be more knowledgeable than ever
before. They have technology that earlier generations
didn’t have access too and the resources to find
the answers they are seeking. But self-orientation is
at its lowest today. The fuel inside you that explodes
into a burning core of desire is self-orientation. Self
orientation is a package and consists of various elements
– your understanding of life, gut feelings,
inspiration, vision, mission, values and ethics. Collectively,
they are called ‘self-orientation’.
We have the time and we have the resources, but we lack
enthusiasm for our own lives. This, I feel, is the problem
with the masses today. We are living life according
to a staid timetable: rise-brush-eat-leave-work-come
back-eat-sleep. Self-esteem is an alien concept because
today, only time is money. People work 24/7, but many
don't know why they work so hard, what they're working
for or the purpose of their lives. This lackluster attitude
has prompted me to write this book. It is ‘You’
that you should believe in, rather than the product
or the company. ‘You’ have the power to
change things. I want people to know what they are individually
capable of achieving. You might have read scores of
books with similar headlines and punch-lines, but friends,
the content is fresh. It’s about your life and
I am confident of this book, for I am a product of the
market as well. The book is very much set in the realm
of the possible and the achievable.
Remember, self-motivation is not difficult to achieve.
The ‘I’ in you is what will make a difference.
You have to work for yourself. Be selfish. When you
are not serious, your problems will get serious. But
if you are serious, you will seriously enjoy life! You
are never going to be satisfied, if you do not know
what will satisfy you. All successful people think on
paper. If you have your goals written on a piece of
paper, you get peace of mind, otherwise you will get
pieces of mind!
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